When I was a child, my father, sister and I said our prayers together every night. I don't remember praying to or for anything in particular. We are free to build our own altars, and free to build our own gods that live on affirmations, token words, and cleared consciences before bed. If we don't care what they look like, they won't care how we behave. All our actions are excusable as long as we say the magic words.